Basically, the FAMILY INTERVENTION has proven to be the most successful this process is where the participants meet with the
interventionist to prepare for the intervention without the knowledge of the
addicted person until the actual intervention.
The most important concept of this process is that we do not allow for the person being intervened upon to not show up or
in some way sabotage the process.
A word of caution. Today, with alcohol and other drug
addiction interventions being broadcast on television, participants often
believe they do not need a trained person and they can do it for themselves.
The danger in this is there may be one and only one opportunity to approach the
sick person and get them to proper help. Untrained and unskilled participants
do not want to blow this chance. Trained, credentialed professionals are
capable of assessing the health and well being of the potential patient,
dealing with their denial and resistance plus determining the treatment
facility that will have the best outcome for each person.
Intervention that have the most
effective outcomes and result in the addicted person being willing to accept
help are carefully thought out, planned and orchestrated by a trained clinician
and interventionist. If a loved one has a broken bone, family members would
take that person to a specialist in broken bones. If family members have a
loved one with an addiction, they best seek guidance from a person educated,
trained and skilled in treating addictions.
Family members and other
significant people in an addicted person's life get sucked into the addictive
process. The addiction affects everyone in an addicted system. With the best of
intentions and out of love, concern and not knowing what to do they end up
prolonging but never preventing the addiction. How do family member do this?
Primarily by enabling and rescuing.
What is
enabling? Enabling is
consistently doing for another person what they could and should be doing for
themselves. Rescuing is not allowing the addicted person to experience the
consequences of their addiction and actions. Without guidance and direction it
is easy to keep repeating this pattern.
Much has been said about
allowing a person to "hit bottom." An addicted person is on an
elevator going down to the basement. Sadly, riding on this elevator with them
is the people who they love and who love them the most. We know that through
education, treatment and help, everyone can get off on whatever floor they find
themselves. Often, the family member needs to get off first. This can result in
the addicted loved one following them into recovery.
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It all starts with that phone
call to us! I am not always available and may be away from the office doing a
intervention. If you leave a name, telephone number and breif message I pledge
to return your as soon as possible.
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During our initial phone
conversation, we will discuss the circumstances necessitating an intervention.
You can ask any questions of me. I will give you guidance and make suggestion
as to the plan of action. We will discuss all aspects of intervention,
including fees.
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If we agree to move forward
with the intervention, I will ask you for the namesof those who will
participate in the intervention. At this stage, I caution you to be very
careful about whom you tell about the intervention. We need to make sure the
people we tell will not sabotage the intervention by informing the addicted
person.
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We will discuss the
participants to determine their willingness and appropriateness to participate.
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Once I have completed this
phase, we will discuss the logistics such as when and where. We will also
discuss the therapeutic model of intervention that will be most effective. All
of our interventions are handled in a respectful, non-shaming or blaming
manner.
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The preferred method is the Family
Intervention, this method
is very important if there is a real concern and probability that the
intervened upon person will run away or be hard to find, which is to gather the
participants prior to the actual intervention for education and preparation
just like the family intervention model , however, the actual intervention
meeting will not be announced to the addicted person , instead,
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We (the intervention
participants) will then arrange a gathering place and time and have someone
bring the addicted person to that meeting without advance notice.
� Why an intervention? The primary purpose of the intervention is
to assist and encourage the addicted person to go to treatment. This is a life
saving mission. It is not uncommon to be confronted with the addicted person's
denial and resistance. This is where you need atrained
interventionist and
clinician to deal with the denial, the resistance and help participants stay
firm with their request for the addicted person to get help that day.
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Having been a professionals in
the treatment field for many years, We will assist family members toselect the
treatment center where their patient will have the best chance of being
successful in their recovery. Considerations concerning insurance coverage,
financial and special needs of the patient will be discussed with family
members. When a choice is made concerning addiction treatment providers, I will
reserve a bed and facilitate an easy admission.
It is vitally important that
family members seek their own help by attending family programs, preferably
starting prior to or when the patient is in treatment.we will assist and facilitate
this for the family.